Born on December 28, 1993, Weston Douglas Smith was the son of Doug and Lisa Smith. He was a 5th grader at Keith Elementary. Weston loved to read, play baseball, basketball and he loved going to school. Westons great smile and beautiful "eyes were like the window to his soul." Most people also know him as "one of the most polite kids they've known." Weston is loved by all. Weston was called up to be with the Lord on December 30, 2004. Please feel free to add your comments below. It is also asked that you have your children comment if they would like. The family has asked that in lieu of flowers please make a donation to Keith Elementary, (note)Weston Smith Library Fund as Weston loved so much to read.
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Doug, Lisa, & family
Please know that your church family will love and support you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
The Crow Family
..."And he took the children in his arms, put his hands on them and blessed them"....Mark 10:16
I heard about your family on my church's email. As a mother my heart is breaking for you. Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. May peace and love surround you.
The Smith Family,
Weston was such an awesome and fun-loving kid! Everytime I came over to your house, he always had a smile on. Mrs. Lisa and Mr. Doug, I cannot even begin to explain how well you raised all your children. I'll never forget him and he is in my prayers every day! So are you all!
Weston, we will all be with you again one day!
Love always,
Ashley Taverner
As a mother my heart broke into a million pieces when I learned what happened to Weston. What an unimaginable thing you are going through. God has a plan for all of us and we have no idea what will happen from day to day. Give all your sorrow over to Him so that He may grant you the peace you need at this time. I know Weston was the kind of kid everyone wishes for..I know you would never trade the years you had with him for not ever having known him. Be at peace with the fact that he is safe in heaven in Jesus' arms and watching down on you always.
Dear Doug, Lisa, & Family,
Our hearts are breaking for your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers constantly. We have no words to ease your pain. Only that it is your faith in God that will keep you strong and give you comfort in this most painful time. Weston is now your angel in heaven and will forever be smiling down to all of you, until you meet again.
Love,
Doug, Vicki, Cameron, & Brennan Seal
Dear Doug, Lisa, & Family,
Our hearts are breaking for your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers constantly. We have no words to ease your pain. Only that it is your faith in God that will keep you strong and give you comfort in this most painful time. Weston is now your angel in heaven and will forever be smiling down to all of you, until you meet again.
Love,
Doug, Vicki, Cameron, & Brennan Seal
Dear Doug and Lisa,
Since hearing the news about Weston, I have struggled to understand why things like this have to happen. It is such a blow to my faith and all we believe in as Christians. I have to believe that because Weston was such a wonderful boy that maybe God needed him more than we did. This beautiful young man, as well as Erica, Lauren, Zach and Kyle are tributes to you as parents. You are on my mind constantly and I only wish there was something that I could do or say that could come close to consoling you at this time and in the days ahead. God bless you and your family and know we are holding you close in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Jimette
Doug & Lisa,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Weston will be greatly missed.
Jaime, Nelly and Adrian Gonzalez.
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Lauren and Family,
Lauren, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of sorrow.
Be comfortiable knowing that Weston is in a peaceful place in the lovely arms of god.
If you every need anything at all I'm here for you.
Melissa Post
Cheer Unitied Family
Weston,
There is ALOT less goodness in the world today.
Lisa and Doug,
Our hearts and prayers go out to the both of you. As parents we feel your pain and wish we could help to lift the both of you up. Please know that we will continue to pray for your peace and understanding. You have a whole community that loves you and is praying for your strength. May God pick you up and wrap you in his arms.
With love,
Becky and Rick Bonaventura
While we are mourning the loss of our friend,
others are rejoicing to meet him :)
Dear Weston,
Words cannot express how much I am missing you. I will never forget the times you would spend the night. You and Tyler would talk sports until midnight, play video games until the crack of dawn, and then run outside to play the game(depending on what season it was). Tyler loved playing with you and thought the most of you. You were a great friend to Tyler and I am honored to have known such a great kid. You were a great kid--the best of the best!! I will miss you forever.
Love,
Leah Jenkins
Weston and I were just becoming good friends, and I am so sorry that we didn't become good friends sooner. I am really going to miss him.
William Childres
To the Smith Family:
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Our daughter Shannon has been in Weston's class for the past 4 years. It has been very hard explaining to Shannon why the Lord would take such a beautiful, young child. She has asked over and over why God would take an 11 year old child. As we too have a hard time understanding, the only answer we can give her is that God needed an Angel. Weston was an all around Perfect child - he was smart, athletic, polite and he was such a cutie!
Fairfield is such a wonderful community and we are all here for you. We are here to support you with anything you need now and in the coming months and years.
I did want to say Thank you for having the service at the church on Friday for the kids. It really helped them understand what happened to Weston. You were so strong when you told the story to the kids. I could see how important it was to you for them to understand and to answer their questions. Doug and Lisa - you are wonderful parents and I know you will continue to teach your kids the strength and determination that you have.
Our hearts are crying for you. May God bless you and your family and give you the strength to help you understand that he needed a Perfect Angel, Weston.
Chris, Alicia, Shannon & Aaron Wilson
Dear Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zach, & Kyle,
We have been so fortunate to have known Weston. Colin thought he was so cool from the moment they were in class together in first grade. In fact, all we have heard from him since they were together in second grade was how he wanted to be in Weston's class each year thereafter. When we had to decide whether to stay at Ault or Keith for 5th grade the only concern was where is Weston going. Whenever, we told Colin he could invite a friend over, almost always he said "Can I invite Weston!" For quite some time now, he has been Colin's first choice. He was great to have over too because he was such a good boy. I will always thank God that they got to spend one last night together the night before his birthday. It has meant so much to Colin and us that they had that time together.
Weston was such a great athlete. It was an honor to have coached him. As an opposing coach, I always dreaded playing him as he was such a competitor. Whenever, I coached a team when I returned home from the draft, Colin always asked "Did you get Weston?" Unfortunately, the answer was usually no because he was always one of the first kids taken! Most importantly, he was a great example of sportsmanship. It was a credit to both of you that he knew not only how to win but also how to lose with grace.
Doug and Lisa you have shown such grace through this whole ordeal. Our hearts have been so heavy for you and your family these past few days. Lisa, at the hospital a CBS memory verse kept coming to mind and I never shared it with you. It was "Do not be afraid, nor be dismayed for the Lord your God is with you" Joshua 1:9. We pray that you draw comfort and peace from his strength in the coming days and months. We are praying for you all.
Love,
Eric & Cindy McMurry
Dear Smith Family,
It has been a very depressing few days. Sometimes, I think none of this is really happening. I'm gonna miss the way Weston used to cheer me up. My favorite time with him was when we played baseball together on the Cubs. I also liked playing James Bond on PS2 with him. I'm never going to have another friend like him. A part of me will always miss him. I know that I'll see him again in heaven. I'm very fortunate to have spent that last day with him.
Love,
Colin McMurry
Dear Weston,
We are all going to miss seeing your smiling face on the ball field. You are about the only catcher that can catch Paul's wild pitches! We have been talking a lot about all the baseball games you two have played together. Looking back over the team pictures throughout the years brings back many good memories. You will be missed.
Dear Doug and Lisa,
Our hearts are heavy for you and your family. You have shown such strength and grace in this difficult time. Weston was a wonderful child. You did a great job of raising him. You are in our prayers.
The Thormer Family
you may not know our family that good but I met Weston twice he was a nice boy. I would have never met him if we didn't Know the Croes Family. When Kristen told us Weston died I was shocked and cried but I am glad to know he is in the hands of God. From Madison Meehan
I see a smile and it warms my heart. I will remember it forever. Before I had ever had children I said to myself how lucky I would be if my child would be as neat as Weston. Every hug I get I will squeeze twice.
Jay Klaver
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of sorrow.
The Zientek Family
I love you Doug, Lisa, Aunt Mary, Erica, Lauren, Zach and Kyle.
I wish I had a memory to share. I have thought for the past couple of days of what I might write and the only thing that pop to mind is what Weston is doing now. I'm sure Weston, Uncle Bill Smith and my Dad are playing a game of baseball right now. I can hear Uncle Bill Esslinger arguing with Uncle John and Uncle Rocky, and Uncle Bob in the background laughing. My comfort comes from knowing how much Weston is loved and the people who are with him right now making sure he is not scared or alone. I love you guys....
Cousin Mary and Family - New York
Dear Smith Family,
You all are in our thoughts and prayers daily. I taught little Kyle in VBS last summer, and I remember how proud he was of all of his siblings. Now I see why. What a precious family that you all have! God bless you, and grant you peace.
Love,
Antoinette Simon
Their are certain kids that have the ability to endear themselves to the people around them, both young and old, Weston was one of those kids. I feel very fortunate to have had the privilege of spending time in the midst of Weston. His love for baseball, his hustle, and his heart that was far bigger than his stature, these are the things that I will always treasure. Weston, you will be missed. Doug and Lisa, you are terrific and our family will keep you in our prayers.
In his Grip,
Tony Taylor
Weston,
The testimony of your friends, teachers, coaches tell the story of a great kid, who loved playing hard and having fun. Smiling, polite, hard-working yet with a twinge of fun-loving mischief to be played out on your Grandma. It is tragic that you are gone from us so early. You will be missed by all whose lives you have touched.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all who loved you, especially your Mom & Dad, brothers and sisters, Grandma Mary.
You are a beautiful kid and we all are saddened by your leaving so soon.
The Barber cousins - St. Louis, Missouri
Dear smith family,
i never met weston but lauren was on my cheer united squad last year! im so sorry for your loss and i can not even express the pain my heart feels so i can not even imagine how you feel! just know weston is in a wonderful, beautiful, loving place and in gods arms! and this is only a temporary goodbye; when god calls upon you, you will be with weston again, in a wonderful place! yall are in my all thoughts and prayers! god bless!
Aunt Mary, Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zach and Kyle,
I know how hard this must be for you guys right now, 2 years ago I lost one of my best friends in a motorcycle accident. It was the worst thing ever. I am glad that Weston gave everyone such wonderful memories. He sound like an awesome kid. He has touched so many lives and will continue to touch many more with his organ donation. It takes a special person to impact peoples lives the way Weston did. His spirit will live on in all of us.
I said a special prayer to my dad...
My love, thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Giovanne DiPasquale
Doug and Lisa,
Our prayers are with you, arms around your family and hearts saddened for you all right now. Weston was such a tremendous child. I always marveled at how thoughtful and gracious he was to everyone, including his own brothers. He always had his heart in everything he pursued, athletics or personal. Weston was one of those rare children that lead by being the leader - he was soft spoken, gracious and so wonderful to be around. We'll always keep him in our hearts and Justin and Hayden want you to know and Weston to know that he will be missed tremendously.
The boys also asked me to let you know that they hurt for Zach as well. Hayden told me this afternoon that he worries for Zach because he lost his older brother. Something I don't think they can grasp fully or understand yet.
God bless you all and his plan for Weston, as he has greater things in store for him.
All our love,
Pam, Jed, Justin, Hayden and John Arnett
To the Smith Family,
Weston went to Ault Elementary with our daughter, Courtney. Of course Courtney is 10 and not that fond of boys, but when we heard about Weston's passing, Courtney was sad to hear that a truly kind, polite and friendly boy that she called "friend" had left her and her classmates to go to the top of the class in heaven. Weston will be remembered in our family as the boy who was nice and polite to everyone (even 10-year-old girls) regardless of what the rest of the world showed him or told him to do. I have tried to imagine what if it were me in your shoes right now, and I cannot even bear to think about it. I know that I will hug my daughter tighter everyday. I just want you to know that in Christ, we are all family. Obviously, Weston is part of that family, and we all can rejoice in the thought of being together, forever, very soon. You are in our thoughts, and Weston's kind manner will always be held fondly in our hearts.
The Eberhard Family,
Chris, Jill and Courtney
Dear Weston,
Hopefully you are in a better place right now, but I just wanted to let your family know that it will be okay and that every other famliy that knew weston is probably feeling the same and that weston is probably in a better place right now.
Yours sincerely, Justin White
P.S. it well be okay trust me
Dear Lisa & Doug:
Doug helped coach my middle son's baseball team last fall - the Scrappers and we did not know your family very well. The first interaction I really had with your family was when Logan (my middle) decided to walk home from the baseball field alone one day without telling me. I was panic stricken and all of the parents around me were helping me try to find him (as is normal in our wonderful community). Suddenly "Coach Doug" with kids in tow pulled up in the parking lot at the ball field and had Logan with him. It is the kindness of people like you who make this community and this world a better place.
Though my family did not you all that well - my oldest, Zachary has a class with Weston this year and our kids all know each other. We have seen your family at the pool and at the ballfield and we have always been inpressed by how close-knit your family seems to be - it is quite insipring. We are terribly sorry for your loss. I will hug my children tighter each day. We wish you the best during this difficult time - you are all in our prayers.
Sincerely,
Chad, Ashley, Zachary, Logan and Noah Thibodeaux
Sorry aoubt Weston Doug and Leisa. I hope he never forgets you.And Zack.and pleas dont forget me.
Sorry about Weston. I hope he doesn't forget you Doug and Lisa and Zach and Kyle. And I hope he doesn't forget me.
Love - Hayden White
Dear Smith family,
we all loved Weston greatly. I never thought something like this would happen. When i heard this news at the prayer service I shocked.I'm sure y'all were more then anyone else. I'm so sorry for his loss. Weston was a great friend to everybody. He wasn't a kid who would make fun of another kid if everybody else would.Instead he would help them out. He would always try his hardest and never give up. The reality is starting to kick in to me and these past few days in my life have been the most emotional in my life. I will miss Weston.Everytime i look at a picture of him i want to cry. More like everytime I even really think about it. FYI me and others are praying for y'all!
Westons friend
Connor Byer
Dear Weston's family,
Be happy that you knew Weston,even though it's hard to sometimes. When you think of him think of happy times with him. He is happier than he ever was. Weston probaly wouldn't want you to be sad about his death. Remember that it is ok to feel sad sometimes just not all the time.
Sincerly,
Anonymous
Dear Weston,
Dear Weston,
You were the brightest kid i have ever met. You never failed to put a smile on my face. Whenever i would come over to hang out with lauren you were always there watching sports with your dad or hanging out with your friends and zach. I never did go to one of your games but so many people told me all the wonderful things that you have accomplished. Your family was very proud of you. When i would babysitt you and Zach and Kyle, you would hang out with me or help out with them. I thought of you as one of my brothers. You were very special to me Weston and i will miss you very much. When i found out the news my heart sank, i never thought something so horrible could happen to such an innocent little boy. Your family loves you very much and so do all your friends. I cant wait to see you again in heaven until then i will talk to you in my prayers and see you in my dreams. I love you Weston.
Love always,
Lanie Vanek
have a good time in your second life Weston!!!!
Weston,
You were so beautiful and smart and you've made such an impact on so many people in such a short time. Too painfully short and we wish you were still here. With all our hearts.
My daughter rests not far from you. I hope you both can see the love and pride in our eyes despite our helpless tears. We will forever miss you.
Doug and Lisa...my heart goes out to you.
Faith gives me strength when nothing seems right.
Faith... the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. Hebrews 11:1
Dear Smith Family,
I didn't have the pleasure to meet Weston or your family, I'm a mother and my heart goes out to you in this time of great loss. I almost lost my baby sister to luekemia twice and I could never imagine how my mother must of felt if my pain was so grand. I pray that you find comfort in your daily life to ease the pain in your hearts. May god bless you and keep you.
Out of suffering comes blessings......one of which is I will be a much better father.
The entire University of Texas Longhorn Football team and staff want to say we will miss having Weston here with us to cheer on the team. We know what a great fan he was of the Longhorns, although now we realize he'll always have one of the best seats in the house!
Coach Mack Brown and the Longhorn team and staff
Words cannot express the shock and grief that overcame me when told of your loss of Weston. Why do bad things happen to such good people? I know that we cannot ask or even understand, we just have to put our trust and faith in the Lord! Weston was a treasure and a wonderful young man! He was a testament to his wonderful parents and family. "Coach" Doug, you have meant so much to so many in our community. We are truly blessed to have you and your family living among us.... our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
With Love! Your friends
To the Smith Family,
The pain and sorrow you are feeling is felt throughout the Cypress community. As earthly beings, we will question 'why and how come'- knowing that the answer may never come. As christians, we know that we must trust in His plan. Our Lord hand picked Weston for the greatest All-Star team ever. As Weston watches down upon you all, continue to make him proud. He knows that he is loved now and forever.
Our prayers are with you daily,
The Sabrsula Family - Kevin, Terie, Koltin, and Konner
Dear The Smith Family,
i will keep you all in my prayers for ever and i am so sry to hear about this and i will miss weston alot. he was so cute and so sweet and had gread team spirit. and i know that every one will miss him greatly.
Dear Weston,
I love you so much and i will never forget you.you are in my prayers and thoughts.remember"your eyes are your door to your soul".I love you with all my heart.you were a cutie !
Words can not express how sad I feel for the loss of Weston. I can't seem to stop thinking about it and wish there was something I could do or say to help the pain for this griefing family. I could not even begin to understand why this could happen to such a wonderful little boy. God must have plans for Weston up their in heaven. When you have a boy like Weston, happy and always smiling you know he knows he is loved and was being raised by great parents. Only happy children act like that. My daughter thought very highly of him and he will be missed. But I know he is watching over us and I bet he would be proud to know that we all love and miss him. I think all of Fairfield, especially his family are lucky to have such a wonderful angel watching over us. I know I will never take life for granted or my children. It is sad that it takes such a loss to make you realize how lucky we all are. We will always love and miss you Weston. Please keep watching over us Weston and we will help you watch over your family and help them move forward. But Weston...you will always be loved and missed for there is only one Weston Smith.
Dear Smith Family~
I never had the pleasure to meet your son. From all of the wonderful comments posted here, I can see he was such a great kid. I am a mother of two boys myself, and I cannot even begin to imagine the sorrow and grief you most be feeling right now. I have added your family to my prayer list and just hope that you will be able to get through this time with God's help. It is obvious that Weston was a very special boy and is in heaven now. What a wonderful sight it must be for him! Always remember that you WILL see him again. Peace and love be with your family!
We are all shocked and saddened by the tragic loss of your son Weston. During his brief "earth life" he touched so many in so many different ways. His infectious smile, his kind ways, his talent, and his friendship were just a few of his many attributes. Lisa and Doug, although I cannot imagine the pain and grief you feel, I hope that you will find comfort in the thoughts and prayers of your family and friends. All of Fairfield mourns your loss. Weston has gone on to a new life and is on the "ALL-STAR" team. He was a fine young man and a great reflection of his wonderful and loving parents. He is in God's hands. Weston will live forever in your hearts and memories. It seems as though words are not enough.....our love and prayers are with you always! God Bless you........
Doug, Lisa and Family,
As I read through all the incredible messages written about your son it is obvious that he has touched so many, many lives in the 11 years he was on this earth.
It is also obvious that you are both special people for God to trust to you such a wonderful gift as Weston.
We grieve with you and your family. We are also praying for God to give you strength and peace in this time of loss. He will wrap his arms around your family and lift you up.
Weston will always live on in the hearts and memories of all he touched.
Our prayers are with you all.
David and Keeley Vanek
"I'll lend you for a little while
a child of mine, God said
"for you to love while he lives,
And mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years
or forty two or three.
But will you, till I call him back,
Take care of him for me ?"
He'll bring his charms to gladden you
And - should his stay be brief -
You'll have his lovely memories
As solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth returns;
But there are lessons taught below
I want this child to learn.
I looked the whole world over
In my search for teachers true,
And from the things that crowd life's lane
I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love ?
Not think the labor vain?
Nor hate me when I come to take
This lent child back again ?"
I fancied that I heard them say -
"Dear Lord, Thy will be done
For all the joys thy child will bring
The risk of grief we'll run.
We will shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may
And for the happiness we've known
Forever grateful stay.
But should thy angel call for him,
Much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand."
~ Author Unknown
-Romans 14:7-8
For none of us lives to himself alone and none of us dies to himself alone. If we live, we live to the Lord; and if we die, we die to the Lord. So whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.
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"The Dragonfly"
Once, in a little pond, in the muddy water under the lily pads, there lived a little water beetle in a community of water beetles. They lived a simple and comfortable life in the pond with few disturbances and interruptions.
Once in a while, sadness would come to the community when one of their fellow beetles would climb the stem of a lily pad and would never be seen again. They knew when this happened, their friend was dead, gone forever.
Then, one day, one little water beetle felt an irresistible urge to climb up that stem. However, he was determined that he would not leave forever. He would come back and tell his friends what he had found at the top.
When he reached the top and climbed out of the water onto the surface of the lily pad, he was so tired, and the sun felt so warm, that he decided he must take a nap. As he slept, his body changed and when he woke up, he had turned into a beautiful blue-tailed dragonfly with broad wings and a slender body designed for flying.
So, fly he did! And, as he soared he saw the beauty of a whole new world and a far superior way of life to what he had never known existed.
Then he remembered his beetle friends and how they were thinking by now he was dead. He wanted to go back to tell them, and explain to them that he was now more alive than he had ever been before. His life had been fulfilled rather than ended.
But,his new body would not go down into the water. He could not get back to tell his friends the good news. Then he understood that their time would come, when they, too, would know what he now knew. So, he raised his wings and flew off into his joyous new life!
-Author Unknown-
Weston,
We all go through times when life seems to overwhelm us. Tonight, even though it seems like the whole world has gone wrong around us,reading through some of the memories posted by your friends and family has helped me.
It appears you not only lived with God's love and grace in your life, you helped share it with others. Thanks for being a true bright spot in our crazy world !
Dear Smith Family
We did not get a chance to meet Weston, but had the pleasure of meeting both of you during football season. But I feel that I already knew him as I see you beautiful family around the practaice field and watch Kyle play around as Zack plactice football. Even though words can not express how sorry I am about your loss, I continue to pray for your family, and think about you all and Weston every day.
Donnie,Roxanne,Austin#68,and Tyler Martin
I am sure that there are many people that would like to post a story or comment but have had the strength to do so. I pray that we all will find the strength that only God can give us to remember and honor a precious boy..Weston Douglas Smith.
Weston,
It’s been two weeks since your death. We continue to try to remember more of who you were and how you lived, rather than how or why you died. Weston, did you know how much you would be missed and that the missing would go on forever?
Most of all I hope you know we will never forget you. Our love for you grows stronger each day. We will keep your memories alive - as long as we live.
Weston, I love and miss you so much words can not describe. You were the son every father hopes to get and I’ve got to believe that you would have become the fine young man every father prays his son will turn out to be. So I grieve not only for the loss of my son, but also for the fact that I will never be able to see you turn into the fine father and husband I know you would have been.
Weston, I am very proud of who and what you have become in the eleven short years you were with us. Thanks for the memories and for loving me.
Tonight one of my biggest comforts is knowing that you are now in a heaven. I can say this with confidence because of the strong faith in Jesus that you exhibited for us daily.
Weston, I only hope I can live up to your example for the rest of my life so we can be together again in Heaven. I love you, I miss you, and I will continue to try to do right by you. Just remember, as the heavenly father needed you, I'll still need you too. Please pray with me daily for your Mom,Erica,Lauren,Zach,Kyle,and all your friends and family. We'll need your persistence, your determination, and even your smile, every now and then, if we are to grow in faith and in love.
Until we meet again. I love you buddy. Dad.
Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zach and Kyle -
We wanted to tell you that you are all in our thoughts and prayers every day. We think about all of you and our hearts go out to each of you. The boys are praying for Weston and hope that he has found their dog, Tully, in heaven to play with. Weston was so very kind to all of our boys. Connor told me that he loved to play Power Rangers with him and Kyle. We know what a wonderful big brother he was to Zach and Kyle. What a precious gaurdian angel you all have now. We pray that God gives you the strength, courage and faith to help ease the pain. We can't imagine what you are going through and we don't know exactly what to say, but please know that you all are very dear to us. We will always be here for you.
Wade, Becky, Corey, Colton & Connor
Weston,
We had a tree planting ceremony for you today at your school. All your friends were there. Colin read a poem about trees and an awesome guy dressed in a Scottish kilt played the bagpipes while they set the tree in place. Everyone helped fill around the tree with dirt and your brothers, Zach and Kyle, kept going back up to the tree and adding more dirt. The tree is a live oak and it was donated by your football friends. The school presented us with a ground marker for the tree and we are going to have it placed on the east side of the tree. We gave your teachers some photos of you for their classrom and a special prayer book just for teachers. We continue to be amazed by all the love and support of the community. You always were a special boy and today was just one more special memory for us. Thanks for the memories. We love and miss you buddy.
Dad, Mom, Erica, Lauren, Zach and Kyle.
Dear Weston,
I will miss you. I thought you were such an awesome football player. Zach will be just as good as you are.
Love,
Collin Daigle
Hey Wes I miss you little buddy. I will always remember playing baseball with you in the backyard at Grandma Smith's house and how you would always hit home runs and then I would go and get the ball for you. My dad (Uncle Bill) always tryed to pitch one that you couldn't hit but you still got it. You will be with me every where I go. I love you and I will miss those beautiful eyes of yours!!
Love you always,
Amy
Dear Weston,
I was so happy to play on your football team.
I thought you were the best....
Jamahl Johnson
Dear Weston,
I will miss you not being on Student Council.
I hope that your family is doing well.
Timber Kinzie
Weston,
You had a rare knack for making strangers and even new kids to the community feel right at home. Thanks for being a friend to me and to everyone you met.
Thanks,
From a friend who misses you more than you know.
Smith Family,
I know you don't know me but I just wanted to let you know that people are here for you and praying for you in your time of grief. I have submitted you, your family and your son for our prayer vigil at our church.
I have come across a poem that I thought you may like to read. It is called "If tomorrow starts without me"
If tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry the way you did today,
While thinking of the many things, we didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,
And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind;
All those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye
For all my life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for, So much left yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for a while,
I'd say good-bye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized,
That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,
He said, "This is eternity, And all I've promised you."
Today your life on earth is past,
But here life starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow, But today will always last,
And since each day's the same way,
There's no longing for the past.
You have been so faithful, So trusting and so true.
Though there were times you did some things,
You knew you shouldn't do.
But you have been forgiven, And now at last you're free.
So won't you come and take my hand, And share my life with me?
So when tomorrow starts without me, Don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me, I'm right here, in your heart.
I know that your grief is unbearable now but please remember that our time here on earth is just a fraction compared to eternity. Your son will be waiting for you and you will spend eternity together. So keep faith. Jesus loved the children so you know your son is with Him now. God never gives us more that we can bear. It may not seem like it but you will get through this. The pain will probably never go away but you will be able to one day see your blessings through your other children and enjoy them until it is time to join your son. Keep faith. We will be praying for you.
From: Capers, Dom [mailto:dcapers@houstontexans.com]
Sent: Friday, January 14, 2005 3:52 PM
To: aanderson@a-1freeman.com
Subject: Weston Smith Memorial
Aric,
I’m so sorry to hear of the passing of your nephew. I visited the blog and saw pictures of Weston in his sports gear with his big smile. He looks like a fine young man who enjoyed life to its fullest in his brief time with us.
My heartfelt thoughts and sympathy are with you and your family.
May God bless,
Dom Capers
Weston,
I wanted to thank you for the beautiful weather we have been having. I can only beleive it is because of you and your bright smile, smiling down on us from above letting us know that your happy and that its going to be okay.
God bless,
A friend
Family Chain
We little knew that morning
God was going to call your name,
In life we loved you dearly
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you
You did not go alone,
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.
You left us beautiful memories
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you
You are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same
But as God calls us one by one
The Chain will link again.
Author Unknown
I hope your family is well and I didnt know you or your family but god bless your family.
love charlotte loving
Dear Smith Family,
I CANT EVEN BEGIN TO TELL YOU HOW SORRY I AM FOR YOUR LOSS. WESTON WAS ONE OF GREG'S FIRST FRIENDS WHEN WE MOVED DOWN HERE. I REMEMBER HIM SLEEPING OVER AT OUR HOUSE AND HE AND GREGORY WOULD STAY UP FOR HOURS PLAYING VIDEO GAMES. I REMEMBER HOW AWESOME WESTON WAS AT BASEBALL. I REMEMBER GOING TO THE ALL STAR GAMES AND ROOTING FOR THEM.
WESTON HAD THE MOST BEAUTIFUL EYES AND THE GREATEST SMILE. WHENEVER HE WAS AROUND, GREGORY WAS ALWAYS HAPPY. WESTON MADE EVERYBODY HAPPY. ILL MISS THE CUTE JOKES THAT HE WOULD CRACK AND HOW SMART HE WAS FOR BEING SO YOUNG.
LAUREN, I ADMIRE YOUR STRENGTH THROUGH THIS WHOLE TRAJEDY. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU. I CANT IMAGINE WHAT I WOULD DO IF SOMETHING HAPPENED TO MY LITTLE BROTHER. YOU ARE SUCH A SWEET GIRL AND IM SO SORRY THAT THIS HAPPENED TO YOU.
TO THE REST OF THE SMITH FAMILY, THE STRYKERS WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER WESTON. HE WILL REMAIN IN OUR PRAYERS.
WESTON..BUDDY, THANK YOU FOR BEING SUCH A GOOD FRIEND TO MY BROTHER. I LOVED THE SMILE HE HAD ON HIS FACE WHEN YOU WOULD BE WITH HIM.
Sincerely,
Meg Stryker
Weston,
It still just doesn't feel the same without you around. It doesn't seem that long ago that we went down for the NFL SuperBowl Experience. Zach and I looked through some of the pictures and talked about all the fun we had that day. Hanging out at the ESPN show....listening to Michael Irvin tell you "nice shirt kid"...because you were wearing a Jerry Rice jersey....even seen the picture of you in the SuperBowl MVP car....and remembered you saying "you wanted to win won of these".
As a family, we've never experienced such a wide range of emotions....happy and truly grateful to have so many memories of you, yet still sad that you left us so quickly.
Weston, you touched so many lives. People both near and far away continue to lift our spirits and tell us more and more stories of some of the little things you did. Small acts of kindness, making people laugh, and the occassional stubborn streak over not wanting to fail or let anyone down. Not a day goes by that we are not thankful for the people, their stories, and for you.
Keep smiling down on us buddy....we'll keep trying to smile when we think of you :)
We love and miss you.
Dad,Mom,Erica,Lauren,Zach,and Kyle
Weston,
This has been so hard. I miss you so much and all I have been doing lately is just thinking about you, and how special you were to me, and how many things I wish you could have done. Seeing all these comments posted shows me how much you not only touched my life and our familys but everyone around you. You were such a sweet brother and I can never go a day without thinking about you and how much I miss you and just how much you meant to me.You were such a blessing and I realize how much every day I spent with you will always be a treasure to me. Every day it seems like all I have been asking is why, and to this day I do not think my question will ever be answered and I will never understand why this happened. All I know is that by knowing that you are in heaven and happier than you were here on earth, is the only thing that makes me feel better. I would have never expected our time together to be cut so short and I wish it could have lasted so much longer. Things happened to way to fast for me. Weston you will always be my little brother and I am always your "full time babysitter". I read your story about me and you playing piano and it took me back to how much fun I had having a little brother sitting next to me who played piano and enjoyed it as much as I did (even though you practiced more than I did when I was your age). That's what made you so special because you were so dedicated and so smart you would make me so mad when you would try and figure out my homework(because sometimes you could),and so competitive, always had that look in your beautiful green eyes when you messed up or did something wrong. I love and miss you so much and please continue to help touch our family each and every day bud.
Your loving sister,
Lauren
WESTON
A precious child of God
who got his wings too soon
He touched our lives so briefly
like a flower in bloom
Now help us to be strong, Lord
and not to question why
God picks the most beautiful flowers
to join Him in the sky
Weston,
As each new sports season unfolds, I imagine Weston smiling down from above on those teams that instilled in him his love of sports. We, at the Texans, feel honored that our team was one of those that he liked best. Thank you, Weston, for being our fan!
Dom Capers and Staff
Houston Texans
Weston,
When you died, our lives changed. As parents, we are living a life very different from what we ever imagined.
And while being your parents has made us more compassionate, more loving, and more understanding with your brothers and sisters, we still miss the special part of life that you brought to us...that awesome smile....that competitive spirit...seeing you constantly reading anything and everything around the house....the sound of your feet stomping in the gameroom floor as the video games got the best of you....and we all remember those soft, gentle, shy hugs that you used to give to your family...you will forever hold a special spot in the hearts of our entire family. We feel honored that God chose us to be your mom and dad.
Weston, we've been trying to make the best of this grief and pain, but it still remains very, very hard.Please continue to pray for us and touch us with happy memories.
To the community, please continue to mention Weston's name when you are around us...it's ok...while we may cry...it does help...so please continue to share your stories of Weston...and please continue to lift us up in prayer.
We love and miss you buddy. We'll keep giving thanks for the precious gift of life and for your life.....keep smiling down on us:)
Love,
Dad and Mom
Every exit is an entrance to someplace else...
You must give up the life you have to receive the life that is waiting for you.
I sing in the shadow of Your wings. My soul clings to You. Your right hand upholds me. Ps. 63:7-8
Weston-
You're with God now, but we will never be able to tell you how much we all have missed you in the past few weeks. I hope that you continue to smile down on your family and friends daily, until we all meet again. Your life was an inspiration and a virtue of how we should all live our days. You're going to have a little nephew in a few weeks, and we're hoping all goes well with the delivery. Bless Erica and be her guardian angel as she becomes a mother. It's hard for everyone without you, but your parents have faith, which has kept them strong. Keep Mom, Dad, Erica, Lauren, Zach and Kyle in your thoughts, they loved you more than you will know.
The Sobotik Family
Kurt, Vivian, Marla, Eric, and Gregory
Weston,
Your Fairfield Pacers keep winning !
Zach, Kyle and I went to your basketball team's game this past Saturday. They just keep winning. This time they won with only 5 guys. Your brother Zach sat on the bench with your teammates and did the "WESTON" yell when they broke their coaches huddle....pretty cool stuff :)
We love and miss you buddy.
Dad
NEVER ALONE
I feel you in the morning
When at first I awake
Your thought is with me
With each decision I make
You'd been around only a short time
Since the first breath you took
Now I have to go on alone
But for love, I need not look
Cause by what you bestowed
In our short time together
Will last in my heart
Forever and ever
Although you've left
And now walk above
Im never alone
Im wrapped in your love
Enjoy now your long waited reward
Feel peace that your love continues on
What was taught to me, will be taught to others
Cause you live on in me even though your gone
Weston,
I did not know you very well, but I have been reading your posts daily and feel that I now know you better. I think about you and your family several times a day. Sometimes I feel overwhelmed with sadness and at other times, I see how much your life has changed so many of our lives. I hug my kids more each day and make sure that I tell them I love them every day. I am more patient when they are being silly and remember that they are only having fun like kids should. I tell them stories about you that I have read and that I have heard and use you as a role model for my boys to follow. Your legacy will continue on, because you were such an awesome young man. Everyone who knew you and who knew of you is living their lives differently today because of you. In the few short years that you were on this earth, you lived your life the way that God wanted. Many of us, even as adults, stuggle to live our lives in such a way. Your life has been such an inspiration to me and I will continue to talk of you daily and remind people that if an 11 year old little boy could live his life in such a beautiful way that we too can follow your lead and see you again one day in heaven. Please continue to watch over your family and give them peace. I will also continue to pray for them everyday.
A Mom
Weston,
We love and miss you with each passing day.
We read a new Psalm in the Bible today...Psalm 40...we're waiting patiently for God to help us,but we could use your help too. Keep smiling down on us buddy. Our hope is in you :)
Love,
Dad & Mom
To the Smith Family
We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
John 16:20-33...."I tell you the truth, you will weep and mourn while the world rejoices. You will grieve, but your grief will turn to joy....so with you....now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice and no one will takeaway your joy....I have told you these things so that you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world".
We are always thinking about all of you,and you are always in our prayers. I know that Collin has really enjoyed walking home with Zach after school and playing. He comes home with funny stories about Kyle. He tells me that Kyle is going to be such a good baseball player. I think about all of you everyday and hope each day gets even better.
The Daigle's
P.S. When Collin comes home from your house he has already had dinner. Thanks. always thinking about all of you..
Every summer we would anticipate for Grandma Smith to call and say that Aunt Lisa was coming up and bringing the kids. When we finally got the news that Aunt Lisa was bringing you, Lauren, Zack and Kyle up to Grandma Smith's, Erik and I would be so excited to come and play ball, hang out and watch you boys fight. It was great. Hopefully when your mom, sister and brothers come again you will be there Weston, to watch down over us.
Weston,
It has been hard for all of us to accept what has happened to you. But Erik and I have been talking about it and we decided that they must really need you in heaven since they took such a great kid like you from us. I only wish that we had lived closer to each other so that we could have become closer.
I will always miss you and never forget you.
Love Always,
Brittani
Every summer we would anticipate for Grandma Smith to call and say that Aunt Lisa was coming up and bringing the kids. When we finally got the news that Aunt Lisa was bringing you, Lauren, Zack and Kyle up to Grandma Smith's, Erik and I would be so excited to come and play ball, hang out and watch you boys fight. It was great. Hopefully when your mom, sister and brothers come again you will be there Weston, to watch down over us.
Weston,
It has been hard for all of us to accept what has happened to you. But Erik and I have been talking about it and we decided that they must really need you in heaven since they took such a great kid like you from us. I only wish that we had lived closer to each other so that we could have become closer.
I will always miss you and never forget you.
Love Always,
Brittani
Dear Weston,
Im really going to miss you and your great ideas you always had at student council im always going to miss your smile and politeness you are greatly missed
Baseball In Heaven
Hey mom do you know they have baseball in heaven
I pitched for the "Angels" on my first day
Moses was a bit annoyed, I got caught "stealing"
He said they don't do that here . . .
Hey mom did you know they ski in heaven
We ride atop the tallest clouds
Holding our wings in very close
We make a swooshing sound
You call it "wind" down there . . .
Hey mom do you know they have cable TV here
I get to watch all the neat stuff I could ever want
They even have the Si Fi channel
That me and dad always enjoyed so much . . .
There's pizza to eat all through the day
Man . . . the girls are all awesome and cute
I wear the coolest Air Jordan's
And I never miss a basket when I shoot
About the girls . . . the no kissing on the first date thing sorta bothers me . .
Hey mom do you know they have dogs in heaven
I got one today his name is Jake
He follows me everywhere I go
And likes to lick my face
So mom I guess what I am trying to say
Is that things really aren't so bad
I miss you and the family a lot at times
I miss the guy stuff I did with dad. . .
I do have some good news though . . .
At night when you fall asleep,
God said I can talk to you in your dreams
So those times I show up and we laugh and play
They are as real as they actually seem
Promise you'll talk back to me okay ( I can hear you when you pray) . . .
Hey mom do you know they have baseball in heaven
Oh that's right I said that before
I hit a homer just a while ago
Abraham and Gabriel came in for a score . . .
A camera man came close to get my picture
Just like they do for the pro's on TV
I had the biggest smile you've ever seen
I put my face close to the lens
It was huge and filled the screen
Do you know what I said?
Of course you do . . .
I looked in it and said . . .
" Hi mom!"
Doug, Lisa, Erica, Zach & Kyle,
Just wanted to let you know you continue to be in our daily thoughts and prayers. We pray that God will carry you through.
Ray & Jeri Deyoe
Lauren,
I noticed I accidentally left your name out above... even though I feel certain you know we would never leave you out of our prayers, I still wanted to let you know. Good luck at the cheer competition this weekend - thanks for showing us your cheer - you were great! I know Weston will be pulling for you!
Love,
Jeri
weston your pacers won the championship, also we have headbands with WDS your intials, for my team . Your team wore wristbands with your basketball number 25. also we went to marble slab to celebrate. also we got you a trophie to put in your room.
Love, your brother zach
PS I love you
PACERS WON THE CHAMPIONSHIP FOR YOU WESTON WE MISSED YOU SO MUCH WE WISH YOU COULD HAVE SHARED THIS SPECIAL MOMENT WITH US BUT WE THOUGHT OF YOU EVERY GAME WE WILL MISS YOU
LOVE,BILLY BOOTH
Dear Friends,
When our son Weston died on December 30, 2004 from a sudden and traumatic AV Malformation that ruptured and severely bled in his brain stem area,his mother, his sisters, and his brothers and I made a decisions that no parent or sibling should every have to make. We made those decisions based upon Weston's caring personality, his offer of friendship to anyone, and his unique ability to never want to see or make anyone mad, just happy. During his lifetime, he gave us many, many great joys, but most of all, he made us smile. He gave everything his all with an unselfish and competitive spirit that will live forever. Until the very end, Weston just gave of himself to anyone and everyone.
As an organ donor, Weston gave others a chance for a new or better live. He prevented others from knowing the pain of losing someone they love. And he left our family knowing that part of him lives on and that his ability to make people smile lives on.
While we realize that the donation removes some of the pain of our grief, we still have grief. But yesterday, we received notice in the mail, that out of our grief came something positive, someting of value; one of our son's final gifts was saving the life of another person.
It was so like Weston to to give to others, even when he left us.
So today, while we still miss our son,our brother, and our friend, we do smile a little bit knowing a little more about his organ donation ~ one of his kidneys went to help a someone in California; another kidney went to help someone in Virgina; his pancreas went to help someone in Illinois; and his liver went to help a 17 year old child here in Houston.
Weston, you have really blessed our lives and continue to bless them daily. And while you may have passed away, you really aren't in the past...you are our future...our hope...that some day we will go to you. Until then,
We Love and Miss You Buddy.
Love,
Dad, Mom, Erica,Lauren,Zach, and Kyle
weston,
You probaly never knew how much i love you.At circle lake i just thinked about you!You were always so sweet to your brother.I remember on Christ mas , you leening ovor Zachs shoulder and you telling him what to do at that part!
love ya with all my heart,
Brooke anderson
weston,
You probally never knew how much i loved you.At circle lake I was thinking about you.You were always so nice to your brothers and sisters.You never fought with them.I remember on Christmas you were patient because my mom left your present in her purse!You never got to spend the $60 though.I remember you leening on Zachs shouder and telling what you do at this part!
weston,
You probaly never knew how much i love you.At circle lake i just thinked about you!You were always so sweet to your brother.I remember on Christ mas , you leening ovor Zachs shoulder and you telling him what to do at that part!
love ya with all my heart,
Brooke anderson
weston,
You probaly never knew how much i love you.At circle lake i just thinked about you!You were always so sweet to your brothers and your siters.you never fought with them!I remember on Christ mas , you leening ovor Zachs shoulder and you telling him what to do at that part!you were so patient.On christmas you waited for my mom to go home and get your $60's.You never got to spend it though
love ya buddy,
brooke
love ya with all my heart,
Brooke anderson
weston,
You probaly never knew how much i love you.At circle lake i just thinked about you!You were always so sweet to your brothers and your siters.you never fought with them!I remember on Christ mas , you leening ovor Zachs shoulder and you telling him what to do at that part!you were so patient.On christmas you waited for my mom to go home and get your $60's.You never got to spend it though
love ya with all my heart,
Brooke anderson
i saw you walking down the hallways you always had a smile on your face. you were a very sweet boy and so many people miss you, including me. god bless you and your family. FAMILY- you had a great son always helping others and putting them before himself. I wish you the very best and the strength to get through these hard times. God Bless you and Weston!
Tonight was opening night for baseball. I went up to the fields to watch Zach's game and to give you some support. Several of Weston's friends where playing on the field next to Zach. I couldn't help but wonder if Weston would have been on one of those teams. I know the spirit of Weston was there tonight. He is also in the hearts of all who knew him.
Nancy Hagaman
westen-
your brother zach had a great idea to make wristbands with your name and favorite bible verse on them, wwll they came in today! they look great! they truely are the perfect way to remember some so special like you! i love you westen!
for the comment above...
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weston,
I went to Zachs party last night and I bet you were there .It was wied seeing you with out weston at you party.We saw the wristband it made me sad. I know you were there right by Zach wishing him a happy birthday!
love,
Aunt Nette "red"
Weston,
We had a bench and tree dedication for you last night up at the ballfields last night to remember you. We’re still amazed by the outpouring of love and support of the community. Craig from Cypress Lawn and Landscape built a terrific area for the bench and tree, the Fairfield Women’s Club donated the bench, and The Sports Association presented us with a plaque in remembrance of you. All very special. All in honor of you. For all of those in attendance, and all of those who continue to donate time and resources to help us, thanks. We always knew he was a special boy, living in such a special community, and I think he said it best “Fairfield is Awesome”.
Weston, I miss you so much as we head into the first baseball season without you here with us. I remember how much you enjoyed baseball and the excitement and smile that I saw in your face each year as you got ready for opening day, the morning parade, and the start of a new season. Keep smiling down on us.
Thanks again to the community, and to you Weston. I thank both of you for the joy that you’ve brought into our lives, and I thank the Lord, every day, for the strength his promise gives us. For some day, we will play ball again. Until then,
I Love and Miss You Buddy.
Dad
Lauren and Smith family,
I am sorry for your loss.It must have been hard yesturday.Brooke told me your building a Weston field.Once again i am terribly sorry.
Soliel
Weston, I know you must be very proud of your family. As difficult as it has been these last few months for them, I have seen them do their best to do the things that you would want them to do. Yes, you can see that it is a struggle for them but I know that because you were so special to them is what helps them get through these difficult times. They have such wonderful memories of you that will always be a part of them and the entire Fairfield Community. You are an inspiration to us all. Please continue to look down on your family and give them the strength that they need, especially during baseball season. I will continue to pray for your family every single day. :)
Big Wes,
I've been going over memories in my head; looking up quotes, poems and scriptures from the bible, just trying to find the perfect words to describe the loss that I feel or the love that I have for you in my heart. I have finally came to the conclusion that no message I leave will ever be perfect enough for you, so I have finally decided to let the words come from my heart. I want you to know that from the moment I wake up until I go to bed at night I am constantly thinking of you. Somedays I don't know how I'm going to go about the day, but I honestly think picturing your face gets me through it. Everyone mentions your huge smile and beatiful eyes - & they're so right. When I picture you all I can see is your radiant face and all I can hear is your contagious laugh. Just know that no matter how many times I told you to do something you or got on your case is was only because I felt like a second mom to you - I love the fact that I got to help take care of you and watch you grow into a beautiful, intelligent, caring boy. Thats the privilege I have had of being a big sister to you, Lauren, Zach, and Kyle. One of the biggest accomplishments in life was being your sister and being apart of your life for 11 years. You touched my heart in so many ways. Weston, you are truly amazing! I will miss you everday of my life and will continue to pray for you and all those that have loved you.
Your Big Sis,
Erica "Kika"
Weston,
Erica had her baby, he is almost 4 weeks old and doing really good. Charles Weston Ayden and he's a cutie. He reminds me a lot of Zach as a baby. I can't help but think what a wonderful uncle you would of been. You were always so patient with your brother Kyle. We would all be in the car driving to our activities. Kyle usually not loving the car rides... wanting this song or this movie on. Your would always be so patient with him and just put the song on or movie in for him, or tell us just to leave him alone. Now Lauren and Zach would just say BE QUITE Kyle. We all miss you so much, I just can't imagine my life without you, you are everywhere. I can't even go to the grocery store and I think of everything that you liked to eat. Its all the little things and big things that really hurt. This week was especially hard with opening day baseball, but our community, family and friends really helped us and Fairfield is awesome. They had Toro (Texans moscot) there and your brother Zach and Craig Zemba got to catch the opening pitch and your brother Kyle got to throw the ball to Toro (but he threw the ball at Toro when he wasn't looking).
The memory bench the fairfield sports associate, cypress lawn, and womens club donated is beautiful. I know how much baseball was so important to you, I'm going to especially miss you stealing those bases, and playing catcher.
Mommy misses and loves you so much!
Weston I've been reading a lot of books and cards that our friends have sent us. This has really helps. I just keep trying to make since of everything that has happened to our family and trying to find comfort. I'll end with a couple of inspirational promise about God's comfort.
The Lord hears good people when they cry out to him, and he saves them from all their troubles. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and he saves those whose spirits have been crushed.
Psalm 34:17-18
Even if I walk through a very dark valley, I will not be afraid, because your are with me. Your rod and your walking stick comfort me.
Psalm 23:4
I give you this one thought to keep--
I am with you still--I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone--
I am with you still--in each new dawn.
Author Unknown
In Memory of Weston Douglas Smith
Weston,
The days continue to pass by and while some days are good, some days are still not so good. It continues to be a daily struggle, so I just keep reading the Bible and praying for you, me, and our family and friends.
Read a verse today that I found some comfort in. John 16:22 "So with you: Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy".
So while there is hope in God's promise...a promise that I will see you again...I still miss you buddy.
Love Dad
Weston,
How did you like that Titan game Sunday? Yea we lost, but Zach on the pitcher's mound was a blast. And how about that pick off at 2nd base! He was having a great time out there. His care free spirit is great to have on the team. Helps me remember wants really important. To see him, and your family, out there just having fun enjoying the moment.
I just wanted to wish Lisa "A Happy Mother's Day" .. I hope you had a wonderful day. I know with your mom being here is a really special one. Always thinking about the Smith Family...
I was watching Jay Leno the other night and LeAnn Rimes performed a song called "Probably wouldn't be this way." The chorus reminded me of you and how you've impacted all of our lives.If you were never here with us life would have been so different. Life wouldn't have been the same without you. Life wouldn't have been so beautiful!
I probably wouldn't be this way
I probably wouldn't hurt so bad
I never pictured a minute
without you in it,
Oh you left so fast,
Sometimes I see you standing
there
Sometimes it's like I'm losing
touch
Sometimes I feel I'm so lucky
to have had the chance to
love this much
God give me moments grace
Cause if I'd never seen your face
I probably wouldn't be this way
We Miss You!
Love Big Sis,
Erica
Weston,
I still can’t believe it has been almost five months since I was last able to see you. Five months and it seems like yesterday and yet some times like an eternity.
A lot has happened over the last five months and we are all still deeply affected by you not being here. And while exciting things are still happening ~ your 5th grade party, your bench and picture in the library, your Weston bands, the Keith yearbook ~ they remind us of you and how much we miss you. So while there are some good times, it’s still not the same. Sometimes I just wish we could just sit down and talk like we used too. Guess I just find myself wishing and missing so many things that will never be. I miss your smile, your laugh, your hugs, your high fives, and most of all your friendship and companionship. I’d give anything to take a coach knee with you one more time.
Things just aren’t the same without you. I will always love and miss you buddy.
Love,
Dad
Weston,
I only wanted to say how much I wish I could have gotten to know you better. I always knew you were one of the best kids I ever met. I find myself saying my prayers at night, and I pray for my family, and each one of my friends families, then I get to you and your family. I don't think your family knows how much I admire Lauren and your entire family for their strength. They inspire me to be stronger every day. I get teary-eyed everytime I think about you, and miss you, even though I didnt know you that well. You are such an inspiration to me in so many ways! You are truely missed.
Love,
Ashley Taverner
Weston--
We're still missing you, each and every day. Looking at the 5th grade memory books and DVDs from Ault there is always a pain in my heart when I see your smiling face, realizing that you will never get to see it, or feel the outpouring of love from the community. Continue to look down on your family and friends- we will never forget you!! Baseball season is beginning to come to a close- but you're on the best possible team- a team with God on your side.
Romans 8:38-39
Lisa,Doug, Erica, Lauren, Zachary.and Kyle. You all have been on my mind all day - I hope you have had a peaceful day - God has a plan for each of us and He gives us what we need to see things through."...His loving-kindness begins afresh each day." Lam.3:23TLB - Love and miss you .
Weston - You are so very special- I read this the other day - gave me comfort -"The Lord will open to them the gate of paradise and they will return to that homeland where there is no death, but only lasting joy". - Anonymous - Love and miss you - remembering your sweet smile and beautiful eyes and very special you - Love from Grandma Smith
Zach and Doug
Congratulations on being division champs!! Doug, when I watched you go out and take a knee with your team before the game, I knew Weston was there and that you were going to win the game. Great job Zach on a great game and season. I know Weston is smiling down on you and admiring that awesome trophy. Good luck in the tournement.
Dear Lisa, Doug, Erica, Lauren, Zach & Kyle,
I just wanted you to know how much we admire you. Your strength and courage has been inspiring. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you or Weston. Please always remember how much of an impact you have all had on many lives. God Bless!
Weston,
hey buddy i just got back from cheer camp and all i can do is think about you whenever i saw zach and not you there too. we went to target and i was helping zach pick out shirts and there was a shirt that said "you can have my sister" and then i thought about how you joked with me on how you would get a shirt that said "sister for sale". it was my birthday a couple weeks ago and i missed you so much every birthday you were so sweet and always came up and gave me a big hug and said you loved me. my birthday was so hard without you there all i could do was think about you and how much i missed you. i always find myself thinking about you alot lately it just doesnt feel right anymore without you here, theres always something missing. i saw you in the keith and ault yearbook and on the dvds. made me miss you so much. this sunday i have a piano recital. and, its going to be so hard not to see you there. i remember last year whenever we got to go afterwards to texas roadhouse and get a videogame and how jealous zach was and how everytime i got stuck on a level you would be there and beat it for me. today after cheer zach told me he made all stars I SCREAMED i was so happy and i know you were proud too. i miss you so much buddy and i hope you know how much you have made an impact in our whole family. we all love and miss you.
loving you forever,
your big sis lauren
Dear Weston, there's not a day that goes by that our family doesn't talk about or think about you and your family. I see your family at the ball field struggling deep down but trying so hard to survive. My heart aches for them because they miss you so very much. Your dad has been a wonderful coach to my son this season. You must be very proud of our 1st place team! :) Three of our players made the All Star team and your dad will be their coach! :) We can't wait! Please continue to look down on your family. I promise I will pray for them every day just like so many people. You continue to make a difference for the good in so many people's lives.
Weston,
I still can't believe that you are gone. I miss you so much. These past few months there have been little celebrations for different occasions and it is not the same with you not there. I graduated a couple weeks ago and my mom mentioned you in the speech. I love you so much and think about you all the time. You were such a great person and I will always have a piece of my heart gone until I see you again. I know that somehow while you are in heaven you continue to put a smile on our faces. I know your family misses you more than anything and they are being very strong. Everytime I look at them I see a part of you. You left a major mark in this life and by doing this you changed so many lives. Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zach, and Kyle- I love you all and pray for you all the time. You guys are so strong and I love you so much. I miss everything about you Weston, see you soon
I love you
Courtney
Weston,
I still can't believe that you are gone. I miss you so much. These past few months there have been little celebrations for different occasions and it is not the same with you not there. I graduated a couple weeks ago and my mom mentioned you in the speech. I love you so much and think about you all the time. You were such a great person and I will always have a piece of my heart gone until I see you again. I know that somehow while you are in heaven you continue to put a smile on our faces. I know your family misses you more than anything and they are being very strong. Everytime I look at them I see a part of you. You left a major mark in this life and by doing this you changed so many lives. Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zach, and Kyle- I love you all and pray for you all the time. You guys are so strong and I love you so much. I miss everything about you Weston, see you soon
I love you
Courtney
Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zachary, and Kyle,- Found this in the mass book this morning , thought it might help - "As morning breaks I look to you, O God, to be my strength this day, Alleluia. - In my thoughts and prayers always, love mom/grandma
Weston; We sang the song "On Eagles Wings" at mass this morning - I don't know all the words, just the verse - "And He will raise you up on eagles wings, Bear you on the breath of dawn, Make you to shine like the sun, And hold you in the palm of His Hand." Remembering you everyday - always in my thoughts and prayers - Love and miss you - Grandma
Thinking of each of you and praying for you often.
Jeri
We just wanted to say thinking about you always.....
The Daigle Family
Happy Father's Day Doug
Just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you and hope you have a good Father's Day.
The Hagaman's
HOPE YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL FATHER'S DAY...........
Thinking of you on Father's Day. :)
Hope you have a great Fathers Day:)
from Kingston
I hope you have a happy father's day...
Collin
Hope you have a great Father's Day.
Tyler
Happy Fathers Day to you..Your Family are always in our prayers and thoughts every day...
Always thinking of you
Remember Me
To the living, I am gone,
To the sorrowful, I will never return,
To the happy,
I am at peace and
To the faithful, I have never left.
I cannot speak, but I can listen.
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.
So as you stand upon the shore gazing at a beautiful sea,
Remember Me.
As you look in awe at a mighty forest
and it's grand majesty,
Remember Me.
Remember me in your hearts,
in your thoughts,
The times I cried,
the times I laughed.
and the battle I fought.
For if you think of me,
I will never have gone.
Always missing you
Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zach, and Kyle,
We've been thinking about Weston a lot over the last few days. With All-Stars going on, we are missing Weston so very much and would give anything to have him playing with his friends again. Just wanted to let you know that he'll always be in our hearts and we wish you the best of luck in Zach's tournament this weekend.
Love,
The McMurrys
Weston,
Today i am babysitting Kyle and he wanted to say something. Kyle says that he misses you. He misses you playing things with him and why when he would talk to you why you would always say what. He also said he misses calling you Weston Douglas he said that he likes your middle name, and your nicknames. And, that he misses watching you playing baseball and, that he loves you.
loving you forever,
Lauren and Ky-Ky
Good Luck Mr. Doug and Zach,
I hope you win.... Thanks for letting me be a part of it...
Love,
Collin
Always thinking about you buddy.
Loving you forever,
your big sis Lauren
CONGRATULATIONS TONIGHT MR. DOUG AND ZACH AND ALL OF THE ALLSTARS!!!!
WAY TO GO FAIRFIELD!!!!!!!!
Doug,Lisa,Erica,Lauren,Zach,& Kyle
I can't begin to tell you all how sorry I am for your loss. I knew Weston when he was a little bit younger but I will never forget the time that I spent with him. He was such a sweet kid and had the brightest smile I've ever seen. My heart is breaking for you all and I pray that god will watch over you and give you the stength you need to get through this. By reading the other postings it is obvious that Weston had a huge impact on many peoples lives. He will never be forgotten.
Chris Key
Doug - Tomorrow is the big day - Happy Birthday - Hope you have a good day - Are you celebrating? - Wish I could be there with all of you - Lauren give your Dad a hug from me - love and miss all of you - Mom/Grandma Smith
Always thinking of you and what a good friend you were to Tyler.
Ms. Leah
There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of you all. You remain in my prayers every single day. :)
Weston,
Today was the first day of school for Zachary, and Lauren. It seems like its always one step forward and two steps back for your mom. Dealing with the all the first times with not having you here is so hard. I love you and miss you so much. I’m so thankful for our wonderful friends and family that have helped us out so much and keep helping us and praying for our family. You have such great friends and family and I know that’s because you’re such a wonderful son, brother, friend, nephew, cousin, and grandson. Your mom is so thankful for that and having you as a part of my life.
I really loved these words written by Nick Alcantara given to us from Lift Gift in a medal ceremony in honor of you.
I have come to realize
That time is so dear
When you are no
Longer here
I cling to memories
Sweet bitter memories
That brings you near
If only I can touch
You again
Without bringing back
The pain
Feeling your presence
That you are not really very far away
That would bring back
The joy and magic
Of being again together
I know you are
Just a whisper away
Loving and missing you so much!
Mom
Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zach & Kyle -
You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday.
To My Family- I just wanted to tell you Dad, Mom, Lauren, Zach, and Kyle (Kylina- HA HA)that I love you . I pray for our family every day. I think about this year of loss and sadness and I wonder how we've managed to keep living. Its like walking through a mist. Days seem to start and end - and I wonder where the time has gone. Its already August. Sadly, I used to question many things about God and would even doubt Him. But lately I feel different. I truly have faith now and I feel his warmth around me every second of the day. He is the reason we have made it this far. Though we have our whole lives to lead we will always feel an emptiness and always feel pain because we will always miss Weston. What helps is seeing parts of him in Zach and Kyle. Kyle has the same hands and Zach resembles him more now than he ever has. I am so proud of us as a family. Only a family so strong, caring and loving could stick together the way we have. Although nothing will ever be the same for us I look forward to living my life surrounded by such awesome individuals & together as such a great family we can continue to honor Weston until we can all be together again.
To Weston,
I miss you! My Birthday was Monday but we celebrated it at La Hacienda on Sunday. The whole time I was there I had butterflies in my stomach because I knew I wouldn't get to see you there. When we left I got in the truck and started to cry because your name was not in my "Happy Birthday Sister" card. But Chad helped me and told me it was there I just couldn't see it, that not only were you with me on my Birthday but you were always with me- even at that very moment. He was right! I love you Weston- Ayden and Chad love you too.(oh and Kramer)
XOXO
Erica
Weston, I had a dream about our families last night.... Kyle and Laurel were playing and you were teaching Jacob and Shelby some about baseball while Zach helped... Everyone else was just hanging around having a barbeque and talking.... then I woke up to put Sydney on the bus to Spillane... I cried... I think you would love the school... the freedom... the Library!
I haven't called your mom in a while, but I think of her everyday... and all of your family...
Sending you and your family the Peace of God's love...
You'll never be forgotten....
You are so right.... He will never be forgotten. The Smith Family are in our prayers every day. We miss you Zach not playing football this year..
He’s constantly on my mind, in my heart and in my memories, as he watches over all of us, I feel that he is having more fun than ever playing baseball for God’s team, and waiting for us to fill the stands and cheer him on.
We love and miss you Weston.
Weston,
You are a wonderful son, an answer to my prayers, a light in my world, and a blessing to my heart.
I have not stopped giving thanks for you; remebering you in my prayers.
Love,
Dad
I came across your site while visiting another and have a poem, dont know who wrote it but I thought it may help you with your loss.
"I have not turned my back on you,
So there is no need to cry,
I am watching you from Heaven,
Just beyond the morning sky;
I have seen you almost fall apart,
When you could barely stand,
I asked the Lord to comfort you,
And I watched him take your hand.
He told me you were in more pain,
Than I could ever be,
He wiped his eyes and swallowed hard,
Then gave your hand to me;
Although you may not feel my touch;
Or see me by your side,
I've whispered that I love you,
While I wiped each tear you cried".
LETTER FROM HEAVEN
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you.
It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, They'll be here later on.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years.
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry: it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it by
taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too;
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain;
Then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low;
Just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street and you've got Me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go....from that body to be free.
Remember you're not going.....you're coming here to Me.
Hey weston. I can't believe how long you have been gone. It is hard to imagine how life has gone on this far with you gone. It seems like time is moving, but it feels like life has been put on pause and cant be played again. I miss you so much. It is so hard to look at your family b/c you are everywhere. I am in college now and am having some fun. Studying a lot and doing a lot of reading! i know that you loved to read. I get so angry b/c i know you had so much potential and i cant understand why god chose you. but one day we will know and i look forward to that day. your family is staying strong and i know they miss you so much that it is unbearable. i wrote a poem the other day b/c i thought about things most of the day and wanted to write them out.
the book
when lost we blame the ones we love
our eyes turn to the One above
this nightmare is no different
maybe just maybe He will make it coherent
but there is an ongoing stillness
it builds in our hearts without forgiveness
we assure ourselves life will go on
just to know what went wrong
how? He knew it all along
they had a right to not to fear
but still there are monsters here
there is no answer in this lifetime
so wait to blame, for what you say is a crime
until you see the face of the One who wrote the book
then He will say “take a look”
I cant wait to take a look and i know your family cant either. I love you and miss you Bud
Love
Courtney
Weston,
Fall is here. I just can't get over the fact that Christmas is just around the corner. I've been feeling so lost lately. I know you liked this time of year. Football season, Halloween, and Thanksgiving - so many memories. I can't even look at pirate costmes anymore. Even going to Kyles and Zachs baseball games hurts me. It's crazy what makes me think about you. You are every where! Sometimes I'll be driving and I'll look up at the sky and see these huge unique clouds or the sun setting and it gives me a sense a relief. Other days I can't turn on the radio because songs come on that you liked or that make me think about the sadness of losing you. There is a song out by Green Day called "Wake Me Up When September Ends." Every time I hear it I think about the month our family will hurt the most-December!
Summer has come and passed
The innocent can never last
wake me up when september(December) ends
like my fathers (brothers) come to pass
seven years has gone so fast
wake me up when september (December) ends
here comes the rain again
falling from the stars
drenched in my pain again
becoming who we are
as my memory rests
but never forgets what I lost
wake me up when september (December) ends
It will be Ayden's first Christmas but out first Chrstmas without you. I'm just so grateful God blessed us with Ayden. There would be no joy. I know my message is slightly down but like Mom says this is a rollercoaster ride. Somedays I feel like I'm strong and I feel your love all around me and other days all I feel is emptiness. Its one of those days. On a slightly positive note I'm helping out the Cheerleaders this season. It's cool that I get to go to all the games but it would be even better if they could win one-HA!I know you would give me a hard time just like everone else does-THOSE TEXANS! I think I'm just going to have to try out again I'm what there missing - JUST KIDDING:) Well kiddo I love you. I think Mom and Ayden fell asleep on the couch together. She such a good Grandma- Even Dad is starting to get lovey dovey with Ayden. AHH Grandpa! I wish you could make fun of the old folks with the rest of us. I better head home I'll be thinking of you as always and missing you.
XOXO Your Big Sis,
KIKA
Dear Weston,
Always thinking of you and missing you...
Weston,
hey buddy...i'm just sitting here looking through all these comments and i came across ericas and then she was talking to me about and we were just talking about everything and then it really made me think of how sensitive i really am now, i cannot even listen to ryan cabrera or usher because i always think of how i made those c.d.'s for you...holidays are getting closer and all my friends are all excited and then i know i'm dreading it...at the beginning of the year i had to write a personal style paper for english and at first i was kind of scared to write about because i didnt know the way the teacher would act about it...and it turned out that she had her father die and she wrote to me that things will never get "better" but things will get easier...but in my paper i had to use alot of similes and all and then my very last sentence i wrote i'm dealing with this very struggle every day of my life but my friends and family are the only things in my life helping me push my car forward, the car in my story was kind of what brought everything together because in the begginning i wrote about how my life has always been on pause or how i will go forward and then go backwards and still its like that...seeing all of these comments of people who still think of you still as much as i do which is everyday makes me realize just how special i am to be your sister...i love you so much buddy and am missing all your shy hugs and i love you's daily.
Loving you forever,
Lauren
P.S. the new ryan cabrera c.d. came out i knew you would be excited too and so did the new nickelback you would probably hear it about a thousand times because of ky ky! haha i still remember getting annoyed of kyle saying put it on number one everytime getting in the car well actually that was just me and zach HA!
Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zach & Kyle,
As we approach this fall season, no one can begin to understand the heartache you are all experiencing. So many of us love and miss Weston, but no one could love and miss him more than his parents, sisters, brothers, Aunts, Uncles, cousins, Grandmas and Grandpa. Our wish is that you all find some comfort during this holiday season in knowing that your friends are all praying for God to give you the strength to get through every minute of each day.
We won't let you fall this season and we are ready to serve at any time.
All our love,
James, Katie, Elizabeth & Stephanie
To the Smith Family - please know that we are still thinking of you everyday. You continue to be in our daily prayers. :)
Weston,
You are such a special person. You touched many people in many ways. We are so thankful God blessed us with you, even though it was for a very short time.
Our hearts still ache with sorrow -
Secret tears still flow - What it meant to lose you - only God can ever know.
You are in our hearts forever and always, until we meet again, love Grandma Smith
Thinking of your family as the holidays approach ... praying God will give you the strength that you need to face the ups and downs of each day.
Lisa, wish I could have visited with you longer today. It was so good to see you ... and your smile.
Love,
Jeri
We are thinking of you always during the holiday season. God Bless all of you..
The Daigle Family
Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zach, Kyle and all of the Smith family...I read this web site so often but rarely post anything. I guess since I see you so often I just don't think to write anything. I found a poem that I wanted to share with all of you. I know with the holidays approaching it's going to be even harder without Weston. You have a lot of friends praying for you.
I cannot ease your aching heart
Nor take away the pain
But let me stay and take your hand
And walk with you today
I'll listen when you need to talk
I'll wipe away your tears
I'll share your worries when they come
I'll help you face your fears
I'm here and I will stand by you
On each hill you have to climb
So take my hand, Let's face the world
And live just one day at a time
You're not alone, for I'm still here
I'll go the extra mile
And when your grief is easier
I'll help you learn to smile.
Always in my prayers
Nancy
A Poem for Weston...
Eyes so green, and a heart so true,
a sincere love you showed, for all you knew.
Determined,sometimes stubborn,yet always kind;
And truly amazing, with your unique and smart mind.
A life too short, but you found grace,
A friend to all, you won the race.
Your world and mine, so intertwined,
Forever in my heart and always on my mind.
Love and laughter always filled the air,
When you came home with a high five and said “put it there”.
Tender hugs, and smiles just right,
Told me how you felt each night.
Quiet words, between us two,
Kept our love, bright and new.
Each day you came and called me Dad,
My world complete, for I was glad.
Watching with wonder at your feats,
Your successes were such treats.
And as each day, you learned and grew,my life was filled with love anew.
A fine young man, you are my son,
Now with God, the only One.
Though our love now is from afar,
One day I’ll be, right where you are.
From now until we meet again,
I’ll say your name to ease the pain.
And when memories come crashing in,
I’ll hold them close, for they’re you within.
Farewell my son, my loving boy,
Go with God, be filled with joy.
As I wait for my time to come,
I’ll count the days until we’re one.
Love Dad
Lisa,
So often I think about how you are doing. Hoping and praying that you will find peace. I pray daily that God will be with you during the days ahead. I know you are surrounded by such great friends and a strong family who love you very much. I will continue to lift you up and pray for your comfort and strength.
Thinking of you,
Becky Bonaventura
Doug, what a beautiful poem. The poem from Nancy was awesome also. I have to admit like I am sure others do that I view the website on a regular basis. It brings smiles and tears to me each time as I know it does you all and everyone one else. There's not a day that goes by that we don't think about and pray for your family. Kaci is just devasted because her Weston band broke and she has never taken it off. When I looked at her homecoming pictures the first time, all I could see was her Weston band and it brought a smile to my face. Even though my girls never really knew Weston it is amazing how this has affected them. I think because they have grown to know you all this last year through our time with sports. They mention Lauren frequently since they see her almost every day at school. And of course they always love to talk to and play with Kyle at the fields. I continue to pray and hope that God will give each one of you the strength to get through the Holiday season. I know it won't be easy but remember there are so many people out there that care and are keeping you all in their thoughts and prayers. Mishelle :)
Hey buddy, I just wanted to say that I think about you all the time and miss you!! These last couple days I have been thinking about the holidays and how it only will remind me of losing you. This weekend was one of those times where I could not bring myself to do anything, all I could think about was you. I think about you all the time and pray that things will get easier for your family.
I miss your smile....I miss walking into your house and finding you upstairs on the video games or at the kitchen table.....I miss your contagious laugh that would make everyone around you smile. I thought things would get a little easier butI find it getting harder wanting things to be the way they were. It was the simple things I hang onto most. All I know is God is here and will always be.
love you
Courtney
Dear Smith Family,
Doug, that was so kind of you to share your poem. It was beautiful!Thank each of you for continuing to share Weston with everyone. Just the other day someone asked me about my Weston band and I just loved telling them about what a great kid Weston was. I can not even begin to understand what your family is going through right now. I do know ya'll are sorrounded by prayer and God will be there for you even on the lowest days. You are always in our prayers!
Love,
Kelly
To the Smith family,
We are praying that God gives you the extra strength you need the next couple of difficult months. And that you will be reminded of His love through family, friends and a sign from above that Weston is still so close. May God bless all of you.
Love and prayers,
The Drozdowski Family
I know Westons flame will shine bright for you.
You will all be in our prayers this weekend.
Happy Thanksgiving
The Hagamans
I know many of us will constantly be thinking of you all during the holidays. We will pray for your strength and share in the precious memories we have of Weston.
My First Christmas In Heaven
I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars, reflecting on the snow
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away the tear
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can't compare with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description, to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart
But I am not so far away, We really aren't apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones, You know I hold you dear.
And be glad I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory of my undying love.
After all, love is a gift more precious than pure gold.
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do.
For I can't count the blessing or love he has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear
Remember, I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
To the friends and family of Weston,
As I was reading the Parade section in today's paper, I came across something I thought you may like to share. It's called "Light a Candle for a loved one". A group called Compassionate Friends started it. It is a candle light vigil to remember a child who has died. The Worldwide Candle Lighting in on Sunday December 11, 2005 at 7:00 across the world. It lasts an hour. For those of you who live in Fairfield I thought it might be nice to have this candle lighting at Lowe field. (Please bring your own candle to light) If you live far away or cannot make it please light a candle and say a prayer at your home. What a better way to support the family and to honor Weston.
Please spread the word of this message to anyone who would like to honor Weston.
Nancy Hagaman
To the Fairfield friends of Weston,
Doug just informed me that they have a schedule issue with the candle lighting on Sunday. The family has asked that we move it to 8:15 so they will be able to attend. Please pass this time change on to all that want to come to Lowe field to honor Weston.
Thank you
Nancy Hagaman
To those that came to the candle light vigil to honor Weston and share your memories of him with everyone, thank you!
The love and prayers this neighborhood has given to the Smith's is an excellent way of serving God as he calls us to do for one another.
The memory of Weston Smith lives on and he will never be forgotten!
i miss you!!weston now that Keith has started A.R. like 2 months ago and all the books kids check out that were donated from you just makes me think of how much you love to read and hoe nice you were and you always shared.I love yoU!!!!!!!! I will always remember you right in my heart bud. :)
love your cousin,
Brooke
P.S. i love to play 1985 (song)on the my c.d.because i think that you are always in your iving room like last Christmas and you let me listen to your new c.d. and the way you told me "turn it to 16 it is my favorite song"just makes me feel better that you are sharing it with me!!!!!!!!!!! I love you.
Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zach, Kyle and all of the Smith family,
I know that the week ahead is going to be so difficult for all of you. I can't believe it has been almost a year since you lost Weston. I am always amazed at how much Weston has touched so many people. I know he has given me new friendships that I will always treasure. I don't know your pain but my heart aches just thinking about what you all must be going through. You will contiunue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Merry Christmas
Love,
Nancy
The Daigle Family wishes you a very Merry Xmas and you are always in our thoughts and prayers..
Doug. Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zachary, and Kyle - You have all been on my mind these past weeks - I know how hard this year has been for you - you are in my thoughts and prayers always - May the Lord bless and keep you and give you the strength and peace in the following days- love and miss you - Mom /Mary/Grandma
Weston, May the winds of love blow softly, and whisper so you'll hear, we will always love and miss you, and wish that you were here.
Merry Christmas in Heaven
Grandma Smith
This entire community is on your side this day and the days to come. You continue to be such an inspiration to us. We are praying for each and every one of you.
Lisa, Doug and Family,
Please know that we are thinking of you during these days ahead. We know that they will be difficult, however, God and your friends will be with you to help you through. Take care. The Borsos Family
Dearest Doug, Lisa, Erica, Lauren, Zachery, and Kyle,
I was just thinking of all of you today and realized I needed to send you our annual picture for Christmas. Then I received your letter with the news of Weston.
I tried to get your number so I could call you. I know it has been a whole year now. We are so deeply saddened by this news and of all the pain you have endured losing such a beautiful and wonderful person that Weston was. We loved him too. Mitchell and him were best buddies way back when. I'll never forget the letter you sent us after you moved to Texas and told us the prayer Weston prayed for all of us and he was only 3 years old.
He was such a cute and funny kid.
God loves you all so much as is obvious with all of the comments for you on Weston.
Our hearts our broken right now for all of you and Lisa, I will keep you and your wonderful family in our prayers.
May God continue to give you His loving comfort in the days to come.
Love and prayers,
Renee,Doug, Shane, Alaina, Mitchell and Selah Swaney
Weston,
Happy Birthday. Please continue watching over your Mom, Dad, brothers, sisters and family and friends.….and don’t forget your new nephew, Ayden. We need your help to continue making it through each day. Even though the months go by and the pain is not so raw, please know we cry a little each day for the missed memories we did not get to share. Your time was short here on earth, but your memory will forever be etched in our minds. We love and miss you buddy. Love Dad
Happy Birthday Weston
Today is your birthday
without candles and cake.
And since you are not with us,
we can not celebrate.
We cannot send you a birthday card,
your hands we cannot touch.
So we ask God to give a message
to the one we love so much.
And grant us just one wish
and make it come true.
To have His choir of Angels sing
Happy Birthday to you.
We do not need a special day to bring
you to our minds.
The days we do not think of you
are very hard to find.
Each morning when we awake we
know that you are gone.
And no one knows the heartache
as we try to carry on.
Our hearts still ache with sadness
and secret tears still flow.
What it meant to lose you
no one will ever know.
Our thoughts are always with you,
your place no one can fill.
In life we loved you dearly;
in death we love you still.
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hey buddy,
Just wishing you a happy birthday. You deserve the best birthday now and I'm sure you will have it too. I miss you all the time and you are always on my mind. Watch over us today bud.
Loving you forever,
big sis Lauren
Happy Birthday Weston!
To the Smiths,
Today must be a sad day. Today is usually a day of celebration with family and friends, instead it is a day of sadness of what is not to be. Although no one but you knows your pain please remember that you have a group of family and friends that know you are in unbearable pain. We are all here to do what ever we can to help every one of you.
I hope you enjoy the Michigan game.
M go Blue!
The Hagamans
Weston -
I hope the angels sing beautifully to you today! Happy Birthday! Your dad, mom, Erica, Lauren, Zach and Kyle miss you so very much and are trying to stay strong for each other. Please continue to pray for them and give comfort in their hearts.
Weston -
I hope the Angels sing beautifully to you today - Happy Birthday! Your dad, mom, Erica, Lauren, Zach and Kyle are trying to stay so strong for each other. Please continue to shine down on them and pray for them and give comfort in their hearts.
Love
The Croes'
Weston... we missed your candlelight vigil... I just found out about it.... I'm lighting our candle now... We have not stopped thinking of you and your family and will continue to do so...
All our love and prayers...
TWC
Weston,
Happy Birthday - I found this in the paper the other day and wanted you to hear it -
We will remember you when the flowers bloom early in the spring.
We will remember you on the sunny days that summer brings.
We will remember you in the fall as we walk through leaves of gold.
We will remember you in the wintertime and the stories that are told.
But most of all we will remember each day right from the start, that you will be forever near, for you will always live within our hearts.
Love and miss you
Grandma Smith
Lisa, Doug and family,
We just wanted you to know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers. We still have Weston's picture on our refrigerator. It reminds us to thank God for every day we have together. Your family is precious and we will never forget about Weston.
Sincerely,
Sherry, Danny, Connor and Trent Bennett
Just wanted to let you know we are thinkging of you. Each time we head home, our eyes are drawn to your house...wondering how you are doing and praying for you...The Fredricksons
Doug,Lisa & Family
We are always thinking of you and your family and constantly praying for you. I read the posts on Weston's website often, and want to right in, but feel so lost for words. I know that there are no right words, but you are always on our minds. I know that these are especially sad days this week and we pray for your family's continued strength and faith to help you through day by day.
Doug,Vicki,Cameron & Brennan Seal
You are all invited to a prayer service honoring the memory of
Weston Douglas Smith at Good Shepherd United Methodist Church on
December 30th at 5:00 p.m.
The Smith family welcomes everyone to share stories and memories about Weston as we come together to remember our very special son, brother, cousin, friend, neighbor, classmate, and teammate that has touched our lives forever.
A scrapbook will be available for those who would like to add
prayers, drawings, photos, or special intentions for the Smith's to treasure.
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